5 Self- soothing Techniques for Black Women with Anxiety

5 Self- soothing Techniques for Black Women with Anxiety

Anxiety can present unique challenges for Black women due to the intersectionality of race and gender. To effectively manage anxiety and promote well-being, it is crucial for Black women to prioritize self-care and develop empowering somatic self-soothing techniques. In this blog, we will explore somatic approaches specifically tailored for Black women, aiming to provide support, validation, and practical strategies for navigating anxiety.

Grounding Techniques

Grounding techniques are powerful somatic practices that help anchor your mind and body in the present moment. Try the following methods:

  • Body Scan: Close your eyes and slowly scan your body from head to toe, noticing any sensations or areas of tension. Take deep breaths and release any tension you encounter.
  • Grounding Objects: Carry a small object with a comforting texture, such as a smooth stone or a soft piece of fabric. Whenever you feel anxious, hold the object in your hand and focus on its texture and weight to bring yourself back to the present.

Check out this Quick Grounding Exercise That You Can Do at Anytime for a visual demonstration of this practice.


Conscious breathing exercises can help regulate your nervous system and promote relaxation. Try these somatic breathwork techniques:

  • Box Breathing: Inhale slowly for a count of four, hold your breath for a count of four, exhale for a count of four, and hold for a count of four. Repeat this pattern several times, focusing on the rhythm of your breath.
  • 4-7-8 Breath: Inhale deeply through your nose for a count of four, hold your breath for a count of seven, and exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of eight. Repeat this cycle a few times, allowing the breath to calm your body and mind.

You can find both breathing technique tutorials on Youtube. Check it out!

Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Progressive muscle relaxation is a technique that involves tensing and then releasing different muscle groups to promote relaxation and relieve tension. Follow these steps:

  • Start with your toes and slowly tense them for a few seconds, then release and let go. Move up to your calves, thighs, abdomen, arms, shoulders, and finally to your facial muscles, repeating the process in each area.
  1. Somatic Movement: Engaging in mindful movement can help release physical and emotional tension. Explore these somatic movement practices:
  • Yoga: Incorporate gentle yoga poses and flows into your routine. Pay attention to the sensations in your body as you move through the postures, focusing on grounding and centering.
  • Dance/Movement Therapy: Put on your favorite music and allow your body to move freely. Express your emotions through dance, allowing the music and movement to release any tension or anxiety you may be holding.

Somatic Tapping

Somatic tapping, also known as Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), is a powerful self-soothing technique that combines gentle tapping on specific acupressure points with affirmations. This practice helps to release emotional and physical tension while promoting a sense of calm. Follow these steps:

  • Identify the specific anxiety or stress you're experiencing.
  • Rate the intensity of your anxiety or stress on a scale of 0 to 10.
  • Choose an affirmation that resonates with you and reflects a positive shift in your emotions.
  • Using your fingertips, gently tap on the acupressure points, such as the side of the hand (karate chop point), top of the head, eyebrow, side of the eye, under the eye, under the nose, chin, collarbone, and under the arm, while repeating your chosen affirmation.
  • After a few rounds of tapping, take a deep breath and reassess the intensity of your anxiety or stress. Repeat the process until you feel a noticeable decrease in intensity.

Here's a video demonstrating ETF Tapping:

Empowering somatic self-soothing techniques offer Black women effective tools for managing anxiety. By incorporating these practices into your self-care routine, you can cultivate a deeper connection with your body, regulate your nervous system, and promote overall well-being. Remember to be gentle with yourself and explore these techniques to find what works best for you. Prioritize your mental health and embrace the power of somatic practices on your journey toward anxiety management and self-empowerment.

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